Divorce Attorney in High Point, NC
A major life transition, like a separation or divorce, can bring unexpected stress and uncertainty. A High Point divorce lawyer can serve as your partner and guide through every step of the legal process. Nowhere is that more true than in divorce proceedings.
High Point divorce attorney Sam Spagnola brings 28 years of legal experience to families in the High Point area. He understands that these cases can reach deep into your personal life, your home, and your financial security. The Spagnola Law Firm provides reliable legal guidance so you can evaluate your options, make informed decisions, and work toward a favorable outcome for your family.
We can review your case, clarify your rights, and help you build a strategic plan for the future. Contact a divorce attorney in High Point by calling The Spagnola Law Firm today at 336-704-2921 to schedule your first consultation.
Understanding the Divorce Process in North Carolina
Divorce ends a legal marriage and severs the financial ties established during the relationship. Under North Carolina law, obtaining a divorce requires compliance with specific legal requirements. Spouses cannot live in the same residence for at least 1 full year before filing. At least 1 spouse must also reside in North Carolina for 6 months before filing for divorce.
At least one spouse must intend for the separation to be permanent. Sleeping in separate bedrooms under the same roof does not qualify as a legal separation under North Carolina law.
Many couples establish formal separation agreements during this mandatory waiting period. A separation agreement is a written contract between the parties. It resolves key issues like temporary support, property division, and child custody before the final divorce filing. Having a clear agreement reduces the likelihood of acrimony in the courtroom.
Divorces in High Point are filed through the 18th Judicial District. Hearings take place locally at the Guilford County Courthouse in High Point, located on East Green Drive. Having a High Point divorce lawyer who understands the local court procedures can give you confidence throughout the process.
Dividing Property and Debts
Property division is one of the most complicated aspects of divorce. North Carolina courts categorize assets as marital property, separate property, or divisible property.
Marital property includes items acquired by either partner during the marriage up to the separation date. Separate property is anything owned before the marriage or acquired in the marriage by gift or inheritance. Divisible property accounts for changes in asset values occurring between separation and final distribution.
The Spagnola Law Firm works closely with clients to detail all marital assets, including:
- The marital home and other real estate holdings
- Business assets and ownership stakes
- Checking, savings, and investment accounts
- Personal property, vehicles, and valuables
- Retirement accounts, pensions, and deferred compensation plans
Dividing a retirement account requires special attention. Under North Carolina law, vested and nonvested pension and retirement benefits accumulated during the marriage are considered marital property. Dividing these accounts often requires specialized legal orders, such as Qualified Domestic Relations Orders, to avoid tax penalties. The Spagnola Law Firm can protect your long-term financial interests.
Protecting Your Children
Child custody disputes touch the heart of every parent. North Carolina judges determine child custody arrangements based on the best interest of the child. State law does not presume that either parent is better suited to hold custody based on gender.
Custody involves two distinct components: legal custody and physical custody. Legal custody includes the right to make choices about the child’s education, health care, and religious training. Physical custody indicates which parent the child lives with daily. North Carolina judges may award joint custody or grant primary custody to one parent with visitation rights for the other.
In North Carolina, support awards are calculated in accordance with legal guidelines. These guidelines consider each parent’s income, child care expenses, health insurance costs, and the physical custody schedule.
The Spanola Law Firm seeks fair and appropriate child support determinations that accurately reflect the financial circumstances of the parents. Accurate financial reporting is essential for calculating child support. A child support order based on inaccurate figures can cause financial hardship. We also represent parents seeking modifications to child support when their needs or incomes change.
Spousal Support and Alimony
Financial disparities between spouses often require a spousal support arrangement. In North Carolina, “post-separation support” is the spousal support that a court may order after a couple has separated but before a final determination of alimony can be made. “Alimony” is the financial support of an ex-spouse, paid periodically or as a lump sum.
To receive post-separation spousal support, a divorcing spouse and his or her attorney must prove to the court that:
- The spouse requesting post-separation spousal support is a dependent party.
- The spouse being asked to pay post-separation support is a supporting party.
- The dependent spouse does not have the financial resources to pay for his or her needs.
- The supporting spouse can pay post-separation spousal support.
To receive alimony payments after a divorce in North Carolina, a divorcing spouse and his or her divorce lawyer must prove that:
- The spouse requesting alimony is a dependent party.
- The spouse being asked to make alimony payments is a supporting party.
- The alimony order is “equitable” under North Carolina law.
A dependent ex-spouse in North Carolina has no entitlement to alimony if that spouse engaged in adultery before the date of the separation and the other spouse did not.
Domestic Safety Concerns
If domestic violence takes place, swift action can protect family members. With an attorney’s help, victims may ask the court for a 50B protective order, which provides immediate relief, including ordering an abusive spouse to vacate the residence and establishing temporary child custody conditions. We provide advocacy and swift legal action when your safety (or your child’s safety) is at risk.
Resolving Family Law Cases Through Strategic Negotiation or Courtroom Trial
Every divorce is unique. Some disputes may be settled voluntarily through negotiation or professional mediation. Resolving disputes with a separation agreement keeps costs down and preserves the privacy of both parties.
When agreement isn’t available, effective courtroom representation becomes vital. Attorney Sam Spagnola brings 28 years of legal experience to the family law courts in Guilford County and adjacent jurisdictions.
The Spagnola Law Firm proudly serves clients in High Point and throughout Guilford, Alamance, Randolph, Davidson, Forsyth, and Rockingham Counties. We tailor our services to align with your personal legal goals and family needs.
Partner With an Experienced High Point Family Lawyer
Sam Spagnola has been a board-certified divorce attorney since 2008. He receives additional family law training every year and has completed a rigorous exam for certification as a family law specialist by the North Carolina Board of Legal Specialization. For more than two decades, The Spagnola Law Firm has focused on family law.
Attorney Sam Spagnola has helped both fathers and mothers win child custody cases. We believe in settling cases if possible, but if the going gets tough, you need a lawyer like Attorney Sam Spagnola.
You do not have to face the divorce process alone. Speak with our family law professionals today to evaluate your options and protect your future. Call The Spagnola Law Firm at 336-704-2921 to schedule your consultation.
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